Bad Guys Vs. Nice Boys II

We might LIKE the experience of the “nice guy” doing nice things, but it doesn't CREATE attraction or a connection with the woman. Ever. Trust me, I know men who are the “nice guy” all the time and they get so frustrated trying so hard to please a woman and get her interested. But it's like trying to chew bubble gum to solve calculus problems... It's hopeless. And wouldn't you know it - it works the same way for “nice women”. Being a “nice girl” can't “convince” a guy to like you just because you do sweet things... It just doesn't work like that.
THE TRUTH of the matter is - kissing up, convincing and being too “sweet” can kill attraction. Why? Our subconscious reacts in ways you often can't control and aren't very aware of. Being too “nice” sends a signal to the “deep” part of the mind that tells you “this person isn't desirable and is lower status”. I know, this might sound kind of dark, power-hungry or weird to you, but it's what happens with us humans. People don't value what they can have too easily, whether they admit it or not. Ultimately, when women are around “nice guys”, they end up unconsciously thinking, “This man isn't desirable, I shouldn't date or pursue this guy”.
In the nice guys defense - they might actually have something better to offer a woman in terms of what she SAYS she wants (love, trust, companionship, passion), but the women aren't able to see it - or see it as something they want.
Why? Women don't develop a connection to the nice guy and the “connection” is the MAGIC ingredient for attraction with most women. Which leads us to the “bad boy”! You might not agree with me, but women DO feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION for “bad boys”. Of course, I don't believe that men have to be jerks, or abuse women in order to make them feel attracted to them. But women have a deep attraction mechanism that's triggered by men who behave indifferent, superior, cocky, the list goes of “bad” behavior. You've seen it. “Bad boys” often create inviting and intoxicating forms of drama - often perceived as playfulness, sexuality and fun. So why do women date and continue on with “bad boys”? they we usually say it’s because there was some connection or chemistry. The magic of a connection with a man can be extremely powerful. Often powerful enough to undo all sorts of reasoning abilities and ways of perceiving things.
Women picking and staying with the wrong men is the single biggest mistake I see women make. It's the most common reason why the thousands of women I hear from can't find the love and fulfillment they're looking for.
I can say that I, myself like the bad guys. Of course having the nice boy who could treat me like a goddess would be a dream but that’s it, there’s no thrill in it. I want someone I could fight and he’d fight back too (but you know, not totally.. well, you get it) and of course I don’t want those air-headed jerks who think they’re the kings of this world. *eew* that’s just a total turn-off to me.